My Spring Break Love, But He’s Not a Fling!
Hey y’all! It’s Emory! Yea, I am a PK, you know, a pastor’s kid. Howeverrrr, that is not why I am about to teach this Bible study on campus. I’m just being me! So what! I’m a church girl! I’m just fine with being known as that. There are many girls at school with boyfriends and they are not flings! These girls are loyal! The wifey girls! Meet me in the Preppy Gyrl novel! March 2018! Yes, I am an International Business & Ministry major but ’m not a bore. Oh and my glasses are just to make me look fly and sophisticated. They’re not prescription but they do make you believe that I know what I am talking about! You know, all girls that wear glasses are not dorks or nerds. Nope! Check out my notes to my Bible study group on campus before our spring break. 💗💄📚
What ya doing in the dorms tonight? It is easy to remain pure when you don’t have a boyfriend, especially one that you love. To go further, you may believe that he is the one! 👍🏽 to the girl that doesn’t have a boyfriend and has no temptation. On the contrary, I know that you love him hun and you don’t want to lose him. Sleeping with him may be an important part of your relationship. All the girls want him and you’re doing what you have to do to keep his attention on you. You love God but you just can’t seem to stop and you don’t want to tell him no. It’s just him anyway! . You’re not sleeping with several guys on your campus or girls for that matter! “God, please forgive me” are the thoughts in your head when you get out of his bed and sometimes during… I know that it is very hard to remain pure in college when you have a boyfriend that you love. You are a Christian, so you already know what the Bible says about fornication. No need to preach that message to you, right? Here’s what I will say to you. IF you have to keep giving up goodies with him as your way to secure him and the relationship, you are blocking yourself from seeing if he really is a potential husband. Your idea of who he is, it’s clouded by the passion in the room. You can actually get away with continuous hot days and nights in the dorms, in most cases. However, you can’t quickly get away from marrying a man of whom you are unequally yoked with because you refused to put the goodies back in the candy jar so that you could get a good look and some insight from God on the man that could eventually be the leader in your life, as a husband. So, I want to encourage you to take a step back and check him out! Does he fit the future you? Who is the “future you?” Think about it! Keep it tight, alright! Your “Future Self” will be much better off in the end! You can do it!
Ephesians 5:3 NIV
But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality or any kind of impurity or greed because these are improper for God’s holy people.
Ephesians 5:23 NIV
For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church…
*You will have to submit to him annnd follow him! Ephesians 5:24 NIV
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